My e-mail

I had e-mailed a friend about my current situation involving My friend Tom. Here is my e-mail it's a lot more detailed from what my last post was about.

My email: I don't know if you can help me or not but I know you are good with advice and a married woman. So I know what ever advice you give me will help. I have been really confused about my friend Tom. I hung out with him a couple days ago and since I am falling for him.. When I hang out with him he says he misses me and then he talks to people about me ( a good thing). He also finds ways to touch me. After he dropped me off he rolled down the window and asked me where his sugar was, so I blow him a kiss and he sad ohh and I walked away to go inside and not even a minute later he called me twice. I called him back to see if anything was wrong and he told me he misses me. He has invited me to go with him to Florida this summer and then his grandfather passed away last year and he might move into his grandfathers house and asked me if I wanted to move in with him. We had been talking about this before a few years ago. That was before I realized that I liked him.

Then there is the other side. He said that he likes this girl and wants my advice on how to ask her out. This makes me think why in the hell is he flirting with me and then he tells me this. I don't know if this is a way of him telling me that he likes me and wants to find a way to ask me out. I am so confused. I have never liked a friend before and if we do like each other and start dating I don't want to mess up our friendship.

Her reply: You can ask him what is up with all the flirting straight out. I mean do not beat around the bush. Ask him straight out why he asked for his sugar and asked if you wanted to move in with him. Also ask him what is with all the moves he has been putting on. It is always best to put it out there. There might not be another girl. He might be scared to tell you that he likes yu and maybe not sure how you feel about him. I know it is hard for you to come out in front and ask him what he is thinking and try to figure it out on your own without asking will just end up driving you crazy. You will just have to ask him up front. If you feel more comfortable you can always ask him over the phone.

Like I said the only way you will find out what is really on his mind you have to ask him. It is the only way you will know. If he does like you then it will not ruin the friendship. Even if he does not like you then your friendship will be ok. I know it is hard. But in the end just knowing the truth will make things so much better.

It is the best advice I can give you right now. You have to do the rest on your own. If you find out that he does like you I wish you both the best.